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Community Wide Prevention Dinner Meeting #5
June 19, 2007
Lac du Flambeau Grade School

We had a smaller turnout for this meeting now that we have entered the summer months.  There were about 30 people, including several grade school and high school students.  Bob started the evening by welcoming everyone and explaining about the yellow cards taped up on the wall.  The yellow cards were listings of services and resources as well as comments and ideas compiled from folks at our previous meetings. This has been an interesting process and we have certainly appreciated the patience of the community as we have gone through things to this point.  Tonight, the yellow cards were taped up on the wall of the LdF cafeteria and grouped under headings: Issues, Solutions, Strategies, Programs, Best Practices, Topics for Discussion, and Other.  The first activity was for everyone to look over the wall to see if any of the cards needed to be moved to a different category, or to add a card with an idea. People took their time digesting the array of ideas and comments and resources-it is amazing to see all that we have to offer in our area!  Bob asked the high school students what they thought should happen after everyone had a chance to add their ideas to the wall.  They said that everyone who had put up a new idea should stand up and tell about it.  The next half hour was spent listening as people talked about their ideas.  There were some great additions to the list, including ideas from the high school students.  It was great to have the grade school and high school student there to get their perspective and to hear what they think needs to happen.  One parent stood up and shared that what we need is to really listen to our children.  We had the opportunity to put that into practice at this meeting.  Jenna Hoffman, a high school student shared that she and her friends have talked about wanting to be involved with town boards.  Currently students are not allowed on the boards.  The students want to be involved, and to show that they can be responsible and be a part of making change in their community.  “Nobody knows our views and concerns like us.” 
 
Jazmyn Deragon shared her view, that there needs to be more options for youth.  She would like to see a new or updated youth center with more activities.  She shared that they all have dreams and want to do something with their lives, but it is hard when there are too many options for “getting into trouble” and not enough positive alternatives.
 
The sharing of ideas started the ball rolling, and people continued to talk about different ideas, and what they thought the next step should be.  Cam Martin shared again that she would like the opportunity to present her program “Bridging the Gap” to a group so that we can decide if it is a resource we would like to use.  A common thread emerged from the group of wanting to narrow down the issues that we were focusing on.  There were so many cards up on the wall that it was overwhelming.  Bob shared that we are at the hard part of the process.  He asked “If we have all these resources and programs, what are we missing-looking at these issues on the wall, how come we still have so many problems?” It is hard to narrow ideas down, and to stick with them until they have been completed.  The missing part in many groups like ours, is the collective and individual will to see something from start to finish. 
 
After some ideas had been shared, it was opened up for questions.  People asked about the difference between solutions and strategies.  Ernie gave an explanation of them.  A solution is something you can act upon, and a strategy is ongoing and something that is known to work.  He asked the question, “What brought you here?”  He said that the reason we are all here and all the cards on the wall are connected by a common thread.  One person answered with “communication.”  They wanted to help communicate with others about what is going on, and to be a part of stopping the miscommunication.  Another person wants to see education occur for those who do not know what is going on in our community.  Someone asked about the position paper that we will be writing towards the end of the summer.  Bob said that the position paper will reflect our collective voice.  So instead of just one person going before a town board, tribal council or school board, we will have all of our ideas collected with all of us there to provide support.
 
One common theme was the need to communicate more about what we are about and how people can become involved.  Kayla Norris, a high school student thought we could do commercials that were super positive to get out the message of what we are about.  People suggested using the community bulletin boards on the radio, billboards, buying ad time, trying to get more positive articles in the paper, and starting a website where ideas could be shared on different topics.  One suggestion was to have a community wide multi-cultural event for all ages.  This would be a way to draw people in and to share what we are about, and for them to learn about one another.
 
Nancy Livingston shared that there are common needs among all youth for positive development.  They need a sense of belonging, mastery, self-determination and generosity.  These are needs that we all have, but as youth, it is important for them to have these needs met as they grow and learn.
 
One suggestion was for us to have a common goal.  It was shared that Marshfield Clinic and Howard Young have now come together with the common goal of “Community First.”  Penny Lindeman suggested that our goal could be “Children First.”
 
Sharon Belknap shared her idea for grouping the “Issues” to narrow them down to make it easier to focus.  The groups were: Parent Issues, Youth Issues (includes school based), Racism and A.O.D.A/Mental Health.  At that point, we broke into four groups, with each group discussing one of these topics.  We asked each group to try and come up with a “first step” for their particular topic. The groups spent about 30 minutes talking about the next step, and then we came back together to share ideas.  Below are the notes from each group.
 
Parenting Issues Group Discussion:
Need: parent education, primarily of their influence & “nurturing” of racism and secondarily of the services & programs available
  1. Parent ILI
-          To get to know each other in fun ways
-          Always have food
-          Meet in different locations throughout community
-          Help each culture learn about the other
Example: kids on the rez know their family heritage, they are grounded in it and are proud of it; those of euro descent know much less or very little of their German or French or English or other culture…
-          Maybe get together with youth ILI groups
  1. Media-distribution of facts & things of interest for parents & Parent ILI gatherings
-          Series of articles in papers, including local community ones
-          “Did you know” brief statements
-          Inserts in report cards
-          Inclusions in parent newsletters
-          Brochures at clinics, county 
  1. Community-wide multi-cultural fair
-          Long-term goal
-          Maybe be included in Vilas County Fair and/or Hodag Festival
  1. Parent Mentor program
-          Provide support for all especially new parents
-          Hotline staffed by volunteers
-          Refer to programs in area
 
Youth Issues Group Discussion:
1.        Transportation and Distance is an issue/barrier for getting to youth centers and jobs.
a.       Have a bus system like Bad River, a bus that goes back and forth to town every hour and you can ride one way for $1.
b.       More available taxis
c.       Research possibilities for transporting people
2.       New/More Youth Centers
a.       Have a youth center in each town
b.       Have events at each of them that other all youth could come to
c.       Need to fundraise
d.       Youth Tribal Council is already working on raising money to improve the existing parks
e.       Is there a way to involve the YMCA?
3.       Create Student boards in each town
4.       ILI
a.       Start younger and meet more often
b.       Have it as a class for credit at LUHS-as a social studies elective with real life projects.
 
Racism Group Discussion:
 “Cultural Unity in the Community”  
Our goal is to build a better community through sharing cultures, developing stronger families and healthy living environments in which to live.
 
We will do this by:
  • Decreasing racism through education
  • Improving communication and participation within families and communities
  • Developing a stronger business community through educational grants and funds.
  • Take care of our own by contributing input into government initiatives.
  • Be innovative in our initiatives to remove past prejudices
  • Be humanitarians, volunteer, develop community service programs for families.
  • Eliminate ignorance and enhance cultural understanding whenever possible.
  1. We need a structure to bring existing programs to the community in one accessible spot.
  2. Transportation to such structure (perhaps casino shuttles or school buses)
  3. Buy in from the community as a whole.
A.O.D.A/Mental Health Group Discussion:
1.        Recruit more people to attend the meetings.
2.       Education about existing programs, create a community resource guide.
3.       Talk about different program in school newsletters and in the newspaper.
4.       Put stuffers into phone books and newspapers with information about programs.
5.       Create and tell people about opportunities for people to be involved who want to be, but may not have time for the meetings.
6.       Address the different barriers.
7.       Technology: computers are a way to be connected, but many families do not have them.  Options: to write a grant for new computers, have businesses donate old computers to families.
8.       Professional development for teachers.  Incorporate helpful curriculum to be integrated with projects.
 
After each group shared their “first steps”, we talked briefly how these will be the foundation for the Action Plans that will be developed at the next meeting.
 
The next meeting will be July 10, 2007 from 5:00pm-8:00pm at the LUHS school commons area. We will once again serve refreshments. The agenda for the meeting is:

Tuesday July 10, 2007. Lakeland Union High School.
Vision Meeting: Complete and review prioritization and gaps. Develop action plans for the four topics: vision and mission statement, strategic plan, goals and objectives.
 

5:00pm-5:30pm: Food
5:30pm-8:30pm: Meeting.

Bob Kovar, Project Director
Intercultural Leadership Initiative
Positive Alternatives Coalition